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How To Really Tell If A Guy Likes You
January 14th, 2010 | 
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Chris Aldridge asked:
Copyright 2008 by Chris Aldridge. All Rights Reserved.
I and you have probably read mostly flawed and clueless articles on how to tell if a guy likes you. The reason these articles are flawed and clueless is because they are mostly written by women, who have no idea of the complex system that is man. So, in this article, I am going to clue you ladies in on how to tell if a guy really likes you.
Firstly, if a man is attracted to you, there will NEVER or hardly ever be a time that you will walk by and he will not take time to look. For the most part, he will check you out everytime you walk by because he is fascinated by you. That’s clue one.
Now, we all know that most men will come over and chat with you if he likes you. But you need to understand how he does it. He will first act professional and friendly. He will see how well the conversation can get started. If you act stuck up or withdrawn, he will think you’re not interested. (And no man likes a stuck up woman anyway). If you respond in a smiling and friendly manner, he will continue chatting with you. The reason he works cautiously around these different levels of conversation is to see if he can loosen you up and see what kind of woman you are. He wants to see if you’re joyous, friendly, exciting, etc. And the more he loosens you up, the more comfortable he will become in asking you out.
He will not ask you if you have a boyfriend until you have made him comfortable enough to do so. He will ask you things like, “Are you from this area?” “Do you live by yourself?” These questions usually lead to the answer of “Do you have a boyfriend?” He will dig as deep into your personality and background as he can. And he will almost make it his mission to chat with you every time he sees you. Unless, of course, you two are business partners or something where he has to speak with you daily. But if he takes time out of his day to come over to your department and chat, he likes you.
He will smile every single time he talks to you, and he will usually talk sweet to you. And if you have made him comfortable enough, he will flirt with you. He may tickle your stomach very quickly. He may play with your hair to get your attention. He may gently pinch you on the arm. And/or he may wink at you. But if you have not made him comfortable enough, he will not flirt with you. How do you make him feel comfortable enough? There are a few common ways. Never fail to make eye-contact when you talk to him. Never fail to smile. And never act like you’re bored, even if you are. And don’t be afraid to laugh and joke with him. In other words, being open will make him comfortable.
He will use every excuse he can to be around you. His confidence and performance at work will go up because he looks forward to being around you, if in fact you work with him. If not, you may still see an increase in this because of how happy he is. At this point, it is a dead giveaway that he likes you. At this point, it is not just his personality.
And lastly, I want to discuss one big misconception that most women have when they try to write articles like this. They call it “If everyone likes you, so will he.” Now I don’t know what planet these women are from, but that’s not how it happens on earth. A man could not care less if you’re the most popular or isolated, the head manager or regular worker. He is looking for someone to fill that lonely spot and give him the love and affection he so desires. He does not care about prestige or money.
Ladies, I honestly hope that this has been helpful.
Much love, Prince Christopher.
My literary site: http://www.christophersliterature.webs.com
My MySpace: http://www.myspace.com/therealprincechristopher
My YouTube Channel: http://www.youtube.com/princelordchris
Copyright 2008 by Chris Aldridge. All Rights Reserved.
I and you have probably read mostly flawed and clueless articles on how to tell if a guy likes you. The reason these articles are flawed and clueless is because they are mostly written by women, who have no idea of the complex system that is man. So, in this article, I am going to clue you ladies in on how to tell if a guy really likes you.
Firstly, if a man is attracted to you, there will NEVER or hardly ever be a time that you will walk by and he will not take time to look. For the most part, he will check you out everytime you walk by because he is fascinated by you. That’s clue one.
Now, we all know that most men will come over and chat with you if he likes you. But you need to understand how he does it. He will first act professional and friendly. He will see how well the conversation can get started. If you act stuck up or withdrawn, he will think you’re not interested. (And no man likes a stuck up woman anyway). If you respond in a smiling and friendly manner, he will continue chatting with you. The reason he works cautiously around these different levels of conversation is to see if he can loosen you up and see what kind of woman you are. He wants to see if you’re joyous, friendly, exciting, etc. And the more he loosens you up, the more comfortable he will become in asking you out.
He will not ask you if you have a boyfriend until you have made him comfortable enough to do so. He will ask you things like, “Are you from this area?” “Do you live by yourself?” These questions usually lead to the answer of “Do you have a boyfriend?” He will dig as deep into your personality and background as he can. And he will almost make it his mission to chat with you every time he sees you. Unless, of course, you two are business partners or something where he has to speak with you daily. But if he takes time out of his day to come over to your department and chat, he likes you.
He will smile every single time he talks to you, and he will usually talk sweet to you. And if you have made him comfortable enough, he will flirt with you. He may tickle your stomach very quickly. He may play with your hair to get your attention. He may gently pinch you on the arm. And/or he may wink at you. But if you have not made him comfortable enough, he will not flirt with you. How do you make him feel comfortable enough? There are a few common ways. Never fail to make eye-contact when you talk to him. Never fail to smile. And never act like you’re bored, even if you are. And don’t be afraid to laugh and joke with him. In other words, being open will make him comfortable.
He will use every excuse he can to be around you. His confidence and performance at work will go up because he looks forward to being around you, if in fact you work with him. If not, you may still see an increase in this because of how happy he is. At this point, it is a dead giveaway that he likes you. At this point, it is not just his personality.
And lastly, I want to discuss one big misconception that most women have when they try to write articles like this. They call it “If everyone likes you, so will he.” Now I don’t know what planet these women are from, but that’s not how it happens on earth. A man could not care less if you’re the most popular or isolated, the head manager or regular worker. He is looking for someone to fill that lonely spot and give him the love and affection he so desires. He does not care about prestige or money.
Ladies, I honestly hope that this has been helpful.
Much love, Prince Christopher.
My literary site: http://www.christophersliterature.webs.com
My MySpace: http://www.myspace.com/therealprincechristopher
My YouTube Channel: http://www.youtube.com/princelordchris
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Attracting Women: Older Women v.s. Younger Women
Dan Bacon asked:
Many men agree that attracting women who are older (28+) is easier because women at that age tend to allow your personality to shine more so than younger women (18-27).
The argument usually centers around younger women being too ‘flighty’ and less interested in being serious for too long in an interaction.
Those suggestions are partly true.
Generally speaking and compared to older women, younger women don’t have as much experience with sexual courtships and the ins and outs of dating, love and relationships.
To a younger woman, being all giggly and energetic may be her best way of socializing, connecting with you and expressing her happiness with you in a situation.
If you can’t ‘vibe’ with her on that sort of level, then she might see you as ‘weird’ or ‘boring’.
Additionally, a younger woman might thoroughly enjoy watching movies where Hollywood stars demonstrate passionate and interesting sexual courtships, but will be clueless as to how to make it happen for herself in real-life.
This inexperience on the younger woman’s part might leave you thinking that she isn’t interested or doesn’t like you, or that attracting women of that age is too hard. However, it is more likely that you are incorrectly reading her signals, or lack thereof.
Generally speaking, an older woman will have had more experience with dating and be able to give you more obvious and effective signals of interest so attracting women of that age will seem easier.
An older woman might also express her happiness with you in a situation by using more ‘interested’ facial expressions, body language and tonality and involving herself in longer and more meaningful conversations with you.
Now, I’ve been using the words ‘generally speaking’ because, as you may have experienced, some younger women are very mature, sexually and socially.
One of my girlfriends from last year was 21 years old (I’m 29). She understood things about dating and sex that you’d expect from someone much, much older.
When we first met, our conversations and interactions, while flirty and fun, were also deep and mature.
If you aren’t attracting women between the age of 18-27 and then moving it towards the point of having a younger girlfriend, then you may simply be going about it in the wrong way.
Here’s an example…
I was coaching a client in Sydney a couple of weekends back. As we vibed with two younger women in a popular city bar, there was an old, black & white cartoon playing in the background.
The two younger women were very energetic and giggly, so I geared the conversation towards the cartoon, cartoons in general and the funny things that cartoon characters do, for about one or two minutes.
We all had a good laugh. We then we talked about some ‘normal stuff’ relating to the bar we were in, for a minute or two, and then went back to talking about some other ‘fun stuff.’
I lead the women through a conversation that had emotional variance, in a way that they could relate and contribute to. Afterwards, my client commented with amazement on how the two women just naturally took to me.
Here’s the thing though: Regardless of how skilled I am at meeting and attracting women, the interaction would not have gone so well if I had tried to interact with the two younger women by focusing on ‘normal, boring stuff’ and then expecting them to want to stay there and experience that sort of vibe.
They had a different energy level and way of interacting, so I adapted to the situation.
If you want to beging successfully attracting women of all ages, then you are going to need to learn how to be flexible with the various personality types you meet.
A quick disclaimer: I’m not saying that you should not be yourself, or that you should pretend to be interested in talking about cartoons.
Hell, one of my favourite subjects second to dating advice is transhumanism, but talking about the mind-blowing possibilities of science just doesn’t seem to enthrall 99% of women in bar environments!
…especially younger women. So, I adapt in order to be effective…and it works every time.
Note: Once you begin dating, you’ll be surprised at how interested women will be in who you are, what you know, what you like talking about and where you’re going with your life.
However, before you even get to that enjoyable place, you’re going to need to learn how to adapt and explore interactions and conversations based on the unique individuals you meet.
I can’t remember who said this, but I think it’s an awesome take on calibrating to the situation. I think it might have been Samuel L. Jackson on some TV show when they interviewed him.
Anyway, the ‘guy’ said: “The epitome of cool, is being able to walk into a room full of strangers and get along with everyone on their level, while still being yourself.”
Now get out there and start attracting women!
Many men agree that attracting women who are older (28+) is easier because women at that age tend to allow your personality to shine more so than younger women (18-27).
The argument usually centers around younger women being too ‘flighty’ and less interested in being serious for too long in an interaction.
Those suggestions are partly true.
Generally speaking and compared to older women, younger women don’t have as much experience with sexual courtships and the ins and outs of dating, love and relationships.
To a younger woman, being all giggly and energetic may be her best way of socializing, connecting with you and expressing her happiness with you in a situation.
If you can’t ‘vibe’ with her on that sort of level, then she might see you as ‘weird’ or ‘boring’.
Additionally, a younger woman might thoroughly enjoy watching movies where Hollywood stars demonstrate passionate and interesting sexual courtships, but will be clueless as to how to make it happen for herself in real-life.
This inexperience on the younger woman’s part might leave you thinking that she isn’t interested or doesn’t like you, or that attracting women of that age is too hard. However, it is more likely that you are incorrectly reading her signals, or lack thereof.
Generally speaking, an older woman will have had more experience with dating and be able to give you more obvious and effective signals of interest so attracting women of that age will seem easier.
An older woman might also express her happiness with you in a situation by using more ‘interested’ facial expressions, body language and tonality and involving herself in longer and more meaningful conversations with you.
Now, I’ve been using the words ‘generally speaking’ because, as you may have experienced, some younger women are very mature, sexually and socially.
One of my girlfriends from last year was 21 years old (I’m 29). She understood things about dating and sex that you’d expect from someone much, much older.
When we first met, our conversations and interactions, while flirty and fun, were also deep and mature.
If you aren’t attracting women between the age of 18-27 and then moving it towards the point of having a younger girlfriend, then you may simply be going about it in the wrong way.
Here’s an example…
I was coaching a client in Sydney a couple of weekends back. As we vibed with two younger women in a popular city bar, there was an old, black & white cartoon playing in the background.
The two younger women were very energetic and giggly, so I geared the conversation towards the cartoon, cartoons in general and the funny things that cartoon characters do, for about one or two minutes.
We all had a good laugh. We then we talked about some ‘normal stuff’ relating to the bar we were in, for a minute or two, and then went back to talking about some other ‘fun stuff.’
I lead the women through a conversation that had emotional variance, in a way that they could relate and contribute to. Afterwards, my client commented with amazement on how the two women just naturally took to me.
Here’s the thing though: Regardless of how skilled I am at meeting and attracting women, the interaction would not have gone so well if I had tried to interact with the two younger women by focusing on ‘normal, boring stuff’ and then expecting them to want to stay there and experience that sort of vibe.
They had a different energy level and way of interacting, so I adapted to the situation.
If you want to beging successfully attracting women of all ages, then you are going to need to learn how to be flexible with the various personality types you meet.
A quick disclaimer: I’m not saying that you should not be yourself, or that you should pretend to be interested in talking about cartoons.
Hell, one of my favourite subjects second to dating advice is transhumanism, but talking about the mind-blowing possibilities of science just doesn’t seem to enthrall 99% of women in bar environments!
…especially younger women. So, I adapt in order to be effective…and it works every time.
Note: Once you begin dating, you’ll be surprised at how interested women will be in who you are, what you know, what you like talking about and where you’re going with your life.
However, before you even get to that enjoyable place, you’re going to need to learn how to adapt and explore interactions and conversations based on the unique individuals you meet.
I can’t remember who said this, but I think it’s an awesome take on calibrating to the situation. I think it might have been Samuel L. Jackson on some TV show when they interviewed him.
Anyway, the ‘guy’ said: “The epitome of cool, is being able to walk into a room full of strangers and get along with everyone on their level, while still being yourself.”
Now get out there and start attracting women!
Is it Time to End This Relationship? 3 Ways to Find Out
Daryl Campbell asked:
Here you go again. It started with the silent treatment that the two of you decided to give each other. The weird part is that there was no specific reason for it. It seems like you both came up with the idea at the same time. And now it’s in full swing. The two of you even seem to enjoy it a little bit; hoping desperately that the other person feels the full impact of your quiet disgust.
After that comes the forced conversation. Something that concerns the two of you needs to be discussed but the most either of you is willing to give are short, terse sentences with little to no follow up. You can feel yourself gritting through your teeth as you give your answers. Every response you or your dating partner gives is making you that much angrier. You are not exactly sure why but its real.
Now comes the explosion from both of you. Who left the hall light on, why are we going out to that restaurant, do you have to play the music so loud? Whatever it takes the two of you are off and running on a doozy of an argument. They appear to last longer and get more intense. Kiss and make up? Forget that noise.
Sometimes when a dating relationship heads south it’s really just a matter of giving each other space to recharge your batteries and come back to each other with a fresh perspective. At other times? It’s a clear indicator that the relationship is headed for a breakup.
There’s really nothing in this life that is set in stone and relationships are the least of them. One day it is lovey-dovey with vows of endless love; the next day it’s war. Still you are not sure if you are headed for a break up or even want one but something is happening and you have to ask yourself some questions.
1. Passing Through?
Many a relationships whether dating or married go through a phase where it seems like each person cannot stand to be in the others company. It can last a few hours, days or even longer but the couple does manage to pull out of it and come back together stronger than before. Are you and your significant other in that phase? If yes how long has it been? A month or more without any let up is not a good sign.
2. Indifference
Where as before so many things your dating partner said or did peaked your interest. They either made you laugh, excited or curious but whatever your reaction they had your attention. Now the most you can muster is apathy. Is it happening all the time or just every now and then?
3. Communication
Has it gotten to the point where you don’t want to respond? Maybe you do want to communicate but you and your dating partner are on different wavelengths. As far as you can recall that has never happened before; at least not for extended periods of time. Does the sound of their voice sound like fingernails scraped across the blackboard?
With all the things currently going on in the world, it may be outside forces that are causing much of the tension in your dating relationship. You may want to examine if that possibility exists.
Here you go again. It started with the silent treatment that the two of you decided to give each other. The weird part is that there was no specific reason for it. It seems like you both came up with the idea at the same time. And now it’s in full swing. The two of you even seem to enjoy it a little bit; hoping desperately that the other person feels the full impact of your quiet disgust.
After that comes the forced conversation. Something that concerns the two of you needs to be discussed but the most either of you is willing to give are short, terse sentences with little to no follow up. You can feel yourself gritting through your teeth as you give your answers. Every response you or your dating partner gives is making you that much angrier. You are not exactly sure why but its real.
Now comes the explosion from both of you. Who left the hall light on, why are we going out to that restaurant, do you have to play the music so loud? Whatever it takes the two of you are off and running on a doozy of an argument. They appear to last longer and get more intense. Kiss and make up? Forget that noise.
Sometimes when a dating relationship heads south it’s really just a matter of giving each other space to recharge your batteries and come back to each other with a fresh perspective. At other times? It’s a clear indicator that the relationship is headed for a breakup.
There’s really nothing in this life that is set in stone and relationships are the least of them. One day it is lovey-dovey with vows of endless love; the next day it’s war. Still you are not sure if you are headed for a break up or even want one but something is happening and you have to ask yourself some questions.
1. Passing Through?
Many a relationships whether dating or married go through a phase where it seems like each person cannot stand to be in the others company. It can last a few hours, days or even longer but the couple does manage to pull out of it and come back together stronger than before. Are you and your significant other in that phase? If yes how long has it been? A month or more without any let up is not a good sign.
2. Indifference
Where as before so many things your dating partner said or did peaked your interest. They either made you laugh, excited or curious but whatever your reaction they had your attention. Now the most you can muster is apathy. Is it happening all the time or just every now and then?
3. Communication
Has it gotten to the point where you don’t want to respond? Maybe you do want to communicate but you and your dating partner are on different wavelengths. As far as you can recall that has never happened before; at least not for extended periods of time. Does the sound of their voice sound like fingernails scraped across the blackboard?
With all the things currently going on in the world, it may be outside forces that are causing much of the tension in your dating relationship. You may want to examine if that possibility exists.
Disabled Dating Personals For Singles
Peter Finch asked:
Disabled dating personals have opened up the social lives of singles living with impairment. With the number of dating websites on the Internet increasing daily, there is something for everyone out there!
Disabled singles can choose sites based on ethnicity or cultural background. They can access sites for specific disabilities or conditions or they can choose to go to a more general disabled dating site. Dating sites catering to sexual preferences too abound. There are sites for the heterosexual, for gay men and women, for transsexual and bisexual people and even sites for those wishing to indulge in a weird fetish!
Most disabled dating sites however share one cardinal rule – the sites are for singles only. This is usually mentioned as rule number one in their terms and conditions! The term single however does not apply to only those who have not been married. It also includes anyone who is widowed, divorced or legally separated. In fact there are specific sites aimed at divorced people and single parents.
The regular disabled dating sites do not entertain adults who are in a marital relationship but who are looking for other partners as well. They also discourage couples looking for other couples or singles to join them for group sex. Fetishes which involve minors, animals and illegal sexual activities are an absolute no-no.
To protect the interests of their members, many disabled dating sites have in built checks to ensure that this rule is followed stringently. Free dating sites reserve the right to remove a member without question if they have been found providing false information or indulging in activities discouraged by the site. Commercial sites often use detailed questionnaires or personal interviews to get information on their members and cross checks are built into these. Reported misuse too is viewed seriously.
As the dating disabled personals on these sites are aimed at singles only many of the sites carry advice on relationships and how to maintain them over time. They warn their members that sexual excitement is not enough to sustain a relationship in the long run and that they must look for other signs of compatibility.
Most romantic relationships start off with a spark of attraction between the partners. The attraction may not necessarily be physical – one could be drawn to some particular quality in the other person. But the initial heady excitement tends to settle down after a while and if the relationship continues to grow it is a sign that the partners are on the right track. Then, shared interests outside the bedroom become important as well! A similar way of looking at things, shared beliefs or common goals could all contribute to cementing the relationship in the long run.
The old adage – opposites attract – may be true to start with, but if the so called opposites are so different from each other that they do not share anything in common, they could have great difficulty living under one roof. Disabled dating personals have helped many singles find love and form lasting relationships – so in spite of all the warnings, the horizon continues to look bright!
Disabled dating personals have opened up the social lives of singles living with impairment. With the number of dating websites on the Internet increasing daily, there is something for everyone out there!
Disabled singles can choose sites based on ethnicity or cultural background. They can access sites for specific disabilities or conditions or they can choose to go to a more general disabled dating site. Dating sites catering to sexual preferences too abound. There are sites for the heterosexual, for gay men and women, for transsexual and bisexual people and even sites for those wishing to indulge in a weird fetish!
Most disabled dating sites however share one cardinal rule – the sites are for singles only. This is usually mentioned as rule number one in their terms and conditions! The term single however does not apply to only those who have not been married. It also includes anyone who is widowed, divorced or legally separated. In fact there are specific sites aimed at divorced people and single parents.
The regular disabled dating sites do not entertain adults who are in a marital relationship but who are looking for other partners as well. They also discourage couples looking for other couples or singles to join them for group sex. Fetishes which involve minors, animals and illegal sexual activities are an absolute no-no.
To protect the interests of their members, many disabled dating sites have in built checks to ensure that this rule is followed stringently. Free dating sites reserve the right to remove a member without question if they have been found providing false information or indulging in activities discouraged by the site. Commercial sites often use detailed questionnaires or personal interviews to get information on their members and cross checks are built into these. Reported misuse too is viewed seriously.
As the dating disabled personals on these sites are aimed at singles only many of the sites carry advice on relationships and how to maintain them over time. They warn their members that sexual excitement is not enough to sustain a relationship in the long run and that they must look for other signs of compatibility.
Most romantic relationships start off with a spark of attraction between the partners. The attraction may not necessarily be physical – one could be drawn to some particular quality in the other person. But the initial heady excitement tends to settle down after a while and if the relationship continues to grow it is a sign that the partners are on the right track. Then, shared interests outside the bedroom become important as well! A similar way of looking at things, shared beliefs or common goals could all contribute to cementing the relationship in the long run.
The old adage – opposites attract – may be true to start with, but if the so called opposites are so different from each other that they do not share anything in common, they could have great difficulty living under one roof. Disabled dating personals have helped many singles find love and form lasting relationships – so in spite of all the warnings, the horizon continues to look bright!
Funny Questions to Ask on a Date
Ryan Dube asked:
Dating can be one of the most challenging tasks in a person’s life, so having a few funny questions to ask your next date can certainly break the ice.
Why is Dating so Hard?
Dating is horribly painful for a very large majority of the population. Those who have found a partner, or have gone on to get married, swear that they **never** want to have to enter the “dating scene” ever again. Why is it so painful?
It is painful because most people are terribly self-conscious, and they find it extremely difficult to come up with topics to talk about with a perfect stranger. Throw in the fact that the perfect stranger might actually be so handsome, or so beautiful, that you are caught off guard – and your nerves may get the best of you. This kind of situation can turn a potentially wonderful dating opportunity into a disaster that you could regret for the rest of your life.
Funny Questions On a Date
Yes, dating is a time when you are informally “interviewing” someone about their life, their desires, and their life goals. You are hoping to find a decent match with your own life goals and dreams. But this process of “interviewing” someone doesn’t have to be a nightmare. In fact, learning about someone new in an intimate way can be wonderfully exciting and fun, especially when a little bit of humor is throw into the mix.
The following are some questions that you can toss into the conversation, in a light-hearted and joking way, that can serve to break the ice and help both of you realize that you don’t have to take this “dating game” so seriously.
Have you ever been arrested?
Now, you should never ask your date if they’ve ever been arrested at the very start of the date. But this question is best asked after a few serious questions. It will interject a tone of humor into an otherwise serious discussion, and will hopefully get your date laughing and will set you both at ease. The conversation would go something like this.
You: “So what do you do for work?”
Date: “Oh…I’m a beautician, I cut hair, and I also do makeup.”
You: “Oh that’s great! You must enjoy talking to people then.”
Date: “Absolutely, I love people – I’m totally a social butterfly.”
You: “I love it! I am too..and do you have a big family, brothers..sisters?”
Date: “No…I’m an only child. My parents pretty much ignored me..that’s why I’m so independent now.”
You: “I’m an only child too! Wow, we have so much in common…we’re both social, we’re both the ‘only child’…have you ever been arrested?”
As she looks at you with a raised eyebrow and a quizzical look, you should wait a few seconds and then laugh…”I am SO joking…”
The question immediately breaks up the monotony of a question and answer session, and prevents it from feeling like a formal job interview. As she laughs, it will help her reflect on the fact that this isn’t a job interview – and that you are willing to take matters lightly. You will immediately notice her relax.
Other Funny Questions for a Date
Some other odd questions to toss out in order to lighten up the mood includes:
What’s your favorite midnight snack?
What is the one, single food that you would never give up?
What is your weirdest “quirk”?
Do you have any relatives in jail?
Have you ever gone cow-tipping?
What’s your worst pet peeve?
The important thing is to come up with a question that would catch someone off guard, but you should also avoid being vulgar or rude. The question should be light-hearted, and just odd enough (and asked with the right inflection or tone of voice), so that your date can’t help but chuckle.
Humor is the ultimate ice-breaker, and used the right way, it can change an ordinary date into one for the record books.
Visit www.questionsthatmakeyouthink.com for books, quotes, information and resources about questions that make you think.
Dating can be one of the most challenging tasks in a person’s life, so having a few funny questions to ask your next date can certainly break the ice.
Why is Dating so Hard?
Dating is horribly painful for a very large majority of the population. Those who have found a partner, or have gone on to get married, swear that they **never** want to have to enter the “dating scene” ever again. Why is it so painful?
It is painful because most people are terribly self-conscious, and they find it extremely difficult to come up with topics to talk about with a perfect stranger. Throw in the fact that the perfect stranger might actually be so handsome, or so beautiful, that you are caught off guard – and your nerves may get the best of you. This kind of situation can turn a potentially wonderful dating opportunity into a disaster that you could regret for the rest of your life.
Funny Questions On a Date
Yes, dating is a time when you are informally “interviewing” someone about their life, their desires, and their life goals. You are hoping to find a decent match with your own life goals and dreams. But this process of “interviewing” someone doesn’t have to be a nightmare. In fact, learning about someone new in an intimate way can be wonderfully exciting and fun, especially when a little bit of humor is throw into the mix.
The following are some questions that you can toss into the conversation, in a light-hearted and joking way, that can serve to break the ice and help both of you realize that you don’t have to take this “dating game” so seriously.
Have you ever been arrested?
Now, you should never ask your date if they’ve ever been arrested at the very start of the date. But this question is best asked after a few serious questions. It will interject a tone of humor into an otherwise serious discussion, and will hopefully get your date laughing and will set you both at ease. The conversation would go something like this.
You: “So what do you do for work?”
Date: “Oh…I’m a beautician, I cut hair, and I also do makeup.”
You: “Oh that’s great! You must enjoy talking to people then.”
Date: “Absolutely, I love people – I’m totally a social butterfly.”
You: “I love it! I am too..and do you have a big family, brothers..sisters?”
Date: “No…I’m an only child. My parents pretty much ignored me..that’s why I’m so independent now.”
You: “I’m an only child too! Wow, we have so much in common…we’re both social, we’re both the ‘only child’…have you ever been arrested?”
As she looks at you with a raised eyebrow and a quizzical look, you should wait a few seconds and then laugh…”I am SO joking…”
The question immediately breaks up the monotony of a question and answer session, and prevents it from feeling like a formal job interview. As she laughs, it will help her reflect on the fact that this isn’t a job interview – and that you are willing to take matters lightly. You will immediately notice her relax.
Other Funny Questions for a Date
Some other odd questions to toss out in order to lighten up the mood includes:
What’s your favorite midnight snack?
What is the one, single food that you would never give up?
What is your weirdest “quirk”?
Do you have any relatives in jail?
Have you ever gone cow-tipping?
What’s your worst pet peeve?
The important thing is to come up with a question that would catch someone off guard, but you should also avoid being vulgar or rude. The question should be light-hearted, and just odd enough (and asked with the right inflection or tone of voice), so that your date can’t help but chuckle.
Humor is the ultimate ice-breaker, and used the right way, it can change an ordinary date into one for the record books.
Visit www.questionsthatmakeyouthink.com for books, quotes, information and resources about questions that make you think.
How to Tell if a Guy Likes you – Five Signs He’s Interested
asked:
How can you tell if a guy likes you or is interested? You noticed him when you were standing and talking with a friend. You think he noticed you, but maybe it was your imagination or just wishful thinking. He looked at you at about the same time you saw him. Your eyes met for just a few seconds, and then you looked away. When you looked back up, he was talking with some other people. Was he watching you as you mingled? Or were you making that up? How can you tell if a guy likes you? Why are guys so hard to read?
Here are five signs that he is interested in you too. If any of the following happens, he is probably trying to get close enough to ask you out:
1. He tells someone
Is he interested? He likes you if he tells a mutual friend that he wants to know more about you, or he asks other people who you are and where you’re from. He is trying to act like he’s “just asking” but his questions indicate more than a casual interest. And when he tells someone that he finds you attractive, he probably knows that it will get back to you. He’s hoping it does.
2. The look
He gives you a look that betrays his calm exterior. Even though he is across the room, “that look” he has says it all. It is sweeping, from your head to your toes, and then his eyes linger on yours. You think you notice the beginning of a tentative smile.
3. The conversation
Does he like you? When he manages to get close enough to you, to ask you questions, he is interested. He appears to be listening and responds to what you say. He’s moving in to the ultimate question, which is: “Are you seeing anyone.” He would only ask this question if he wanted to date you, and he hopes the answer is “No.” Never ever wear a ring in public. When a guy is across the room, he cannot tell which finger it is on and he may assume incorrectly that you are taken. If he doesn’t ask you the question of whether or not you are attached, he may ask someone whom you both know.
4. He appears unexpectedly
He likes you a lot if he shows up out of nowhere. He can only do that if he has been asking people about your schedule, or he has been paying attention to where you are going and at what time. His face may turn red when he sees you. A sudden, “Oh, hi,” is his way of saying, “I don’t want to seem obvious, but I am interested in you.” If you feel the same way, do not act shy. Stop and talk to him.
5. EVERYONE likes you
Is he interested? When you are well liked and a happy person, why wouldn’t he like you? Of course he does. If you don’t have a great life, however, now is your time to start working on one. Take a look at your career possibilities, body image, future, plans, and resources. You may be naturally talented at something, but it won’t matter unless you work on your strengths. Misused or unused talents fade away. School and training do not.
These are the five signs that he is interested and he is on the verge of asking you out. Make it easy for him and be friendly. This is where relationships begin.
Do you want to know more secrets about how to attract men? Do you know how to dress, what to say, what to do, and the body language to use when you go out? Do you know the 5 steps to take to meet any guy anywhere? Read on to discover all the secrets to having all the dates you want in How To Attract Men: Secrets Every Woman Should Know
How can you tell if a guy likes you or is interested? You noticed him when you were standing and talking with a friend. You think he noticed you, but maybe it was your imagination or just wishful thinking. He looked at you at about the same time you saw him. Your eyes met for just a few seconds, and then you looked away. When you looked back up, he was talking with some other people. Was he watching you as you mingled? Or were you making that up? How can you tell if a guy likes you? Why are guys so hard to read?
Here are five signs that he is interested in you too. If any of the following happens, he is probably trying to get close enough to ask you out:
1. He tells someone
Is he interested? He likes you if he tells a mutual friend that he wants to know more about you, or he asks other people who you are and where you’re from. He is trying to act like he’s “just asking” but his questions indicate more than a casual interest. And when he tells someone that he finds you attractive, he probably knows that it will get back to you. He’s hoping it does.
2. The look
He gives you a look that betrays his calm exterior. Even though he is across the room, “that look” he has says it all. It is sweeping, from your head to your toes, and then his eyes linger on yours. You think you notice the beginning of a tentative smile.
3. The conversation
Does he like you? When he manages to get close enough to you, to ask you questions, he is interested. He appears to be listening and responds to what you say. He’s moving in to the ultimate question, which is: “Are you seeing anyone.” He would only ask this question if he wanted to date you, and he hopes the answer is “No.” Never ever wear a ring in public. When a guy is across the room, he cannot tell which finger it is on and he may assume incorrectly that you are taken. If he doesn’t ask you the question of whether or not you are attached, he may ask someone whom you both know.
4. He appears unexpectedly
He likes you a lot if he shows up out of nowhere. He can only do that if he has been asking people about your schedule, or he has been paying attention to where you are going and at what time. His face may turn red when he sees you. A sudden, “Oh, hi,” is his way of saying, “I don’t want to seem obvious, but I am interested in you.” If you feel the same way, do not act shy. Stop and talk to him.
5. EVERYONE likes you
Is he interested? When you are well liked and a happy person, why wouldn’t he like you? Of course he does. If you don’t have a great life, however, now is your time to start working on one. Take a look at your career possibilities, body image, future, plans, and resources. You may be naturally talented at something, but it won’t matter unless you work on your strengths. Misused or unused talents fade away. School and training do not.
These are the five signs that he is interested and he is on the verge of asking you out. Make it easy for him and be friendly. This is where relationships begin.
Do you want to know more secrets about how to attract men? Do you know how to dress, what to say, what to do, and the body language to use when you go out? Do you know the 5 steps to take to meet any guy anywhere? Read on to discover all the secrets to having all the dates you want in How To Attract Men: Secrets Every Woman Should Know
Cocky & Funny – Playfully Tease Women
Alex Coulson asked:
how to be cocky and funny
Cocky and funny is a term coined by David Deangelo author and creator of Double Your Dating.
Cocky and funny is the foundation of what David Deangelo teaches and is simply gaming using a simple style of “insulting with a smile” then making her laugh.
Very simple yes?
However if you’re just starting out in this BEWARE as your results will be mixed and varied.
Be weary of the way you pronounce the lines he gives you as you can come across as arrogant.
When I first discovered how to be cocky and funny with women, I was delighted as a new wave of opportunities came upon me, whenever I was out in coffee shops, bars, juice stations the waitresses would soon know me by name and know I would be busting their chops so to speak.
Here’s the deal…
Cocky and funny is a great tool for demonstrating that you’re not an approval-seeking, butt-kissing, nice guy.
Used right, cocky & funny will attract women and demonstrate a lot of important traits that women are looking for in a guy, such as:
Confidence.
Humour.
Challenge.
Unpredictability.
Social intelligence.
Used incorrectly and women will see you as too arrogant, insecure or weird.
I leave it in your ball park …
How to be cocky and funny: Tip #1
CAFE: I’ll just arrive at a cafe and take a seat so the waitress comes out and before she can take my order I’ll say:
Alex: Hi there, can I take your order?
Her: haha I’m supposed to say that!
Alex: Really…I’ve been sitting here for the last 20 minutes without any coffee and look at me I’m all dehydrated …
BOOKSTORE: I’ll be walking around a bookstore and spot an attractive woman flicking through a book
Alex: Hi there ..you know I read that book recently it’s a fantatcis book by the way… would you like to know the ending?
If you want to learn the cocky & funny secrets that I discovered after years of trial and error in real-life situations with women, then check out Street Dating Revealed in this DVD I reveal killer tips for meeting women during the day in cafes, park benches and even on the street. Go to www.streetdatingrevealed.com
How to be cocky and funny: Tip #2
Don’t be overly cocky as you can overdo this part and come across as arrogant and insecure. You need to find the right balance.
If you have too much cockiness you will come across as a jerk and if you use too much “funniness” you will come across as too much of a nice guy or a funny man, women want both in men they seek so try to strike the right balance here.
How to be cocky and funny Tip #3
Approach this technique from a casual point and being playful rather than being too serious about it.
Women will sense if you’re trying too hard and it’ll turn her off
How to be cocky and funny: Tip #4
Practice as much you can, when you’re ordering your coffee
Alex: Hi there what coffee do you recommend?
Her: Oh you have to try the caramel mochaccino! It’s new, bigger etc
Alex: Hmmm sounds nice … I’ll have a flat white
Her: hahaha
The more you practice cocky and funny the better you’ll become at it and more calibrated you will seem.
This is in essence a very powerful technique and should be the basis of all your interactions, you should always be teasing and playful pushing her away and pulling her back in.
The more you experiment the better you’ll get.
Talk to you soon!
Alex
www.alexcoulson.com
how to be cocky and funny
Cocky and funny is a term coined by David Deangelo author and creator of Double Your Dating.
Cocky and funny is the foundation of what David Deangelo teaches and is simply gaming using a simple style of “insulting with a smile” then making her laugh.
Very simple yes?
However if you’re just starting out in this BEWARE as your results will be mixed and varied.
Be weary of the way you pronounce the lines he gives you as you can come across as arrogant.
When I first discovered how to be cocky and funny with women, I was delighted as a new wave of opportunities came upon me, whenever I was out in coffee shops, bars, juice stations the waitresses would soon know me by name and know I would be busting their chops so to speak.
Here’s the deal…
Cocky and funny is a great tool for demonstrating that you’re not an approval-seeking, butt-kissing, nice guy.
Used right, cocky & funny will attract women and demonstrate a lot of important traits that women are looking for in a guy, such as:
Confidence.
Humour.
Challenge.
Unpredictability.
Social intelligence.
Used incorrectly and women will see you as too arrogant, insecure or weird.
I leave it in your ball park …
How to be cocky and funny: Tip #1
CAFE: I’ll just arrive at a cafe and take a seat so the waitress comes out and before she can take my order I’ll say:
Alex: Hi there, can I take your order?
Her: haha I’m supposed to say that!
Alex: Really…I’ve been sitting here for the last 20 minutes without any coffee and look at me I’m all dehydrated …
BOOKSTORE: I’ll be walking around a bookstore and spot an attractive woman flicking through a book
Alex: Hi there ..you know I read that book recently it’s a fantatcis book by the way… would you like to know the ending?
If you want to learn the cocky & funny secrets that I discovered after years of trial and error in real-life situations with women, then check out Street Dating Revealed in this DVD I reveal killer tips for meeting women during the day in cafes, park benches and even on the street. Go to www.streetdatingrevealed.com
How to be cocky and funny: Tip #2
Don’t be overly cocky as you can overdo this part and come across as arrogant and insecure. You need to find the right balance.
If you have too much cockiness you will come across as a jerk and if you use too much “funniness” you will come across as too much of a nice guy or a funny man, women want both in men they seek so try to strike the right balance here.
How to be cocky and funny Tip #3
Approach this technique from a casual point and being playful rather than being too serious about it.
Women will sense if you’re trying too hard and it’ll turn her off
How to be cocky and funny: Tip #4
Practice as much you can, when you’re ordering your coffee
Alex: Hi there what coffee do you recommend?
Her: Oh you have to try the caramel mochaccino! It’s new, bigger etc
Alex: Hmmm sounds nice … I’ll have a flat white
Her: hahaha
The more you practice cocky and funny the better you’ll become at it and more calibrated you will seem.
This is in essence a very powerful technique and should be the basis of all your interactions, you should always be teasing and playful pushing her away and pulling her back in.
The more you experiment the better you’ll get.
Talk to you soon!
Alex
www.alexcoulson.com
A Weird Online Dating Story
Joe Davidson asked:
I have a funny story about something interesting that happened to me while visiting a free dating site.
Yes, the story does have a point, and yes, there is a lesson to be learned from it.
I call this story, the “beware of who you’re talking to on free dating sites”, yeah it’s a crappy title, but it’s a work in progress so cut me some slack.
Oh well, it all started about 4 months ago when I decided that for the first time ever, I would attempt to find love over the internet. I’d never experienced this mystical feeling they call love, so I felt there was nothing to lose. I joined a free dating site, actually, two free dating sites, but I later dropped one after I discovered some “hidden fees”. Anyways, so I’m surfing this free dating site, checking out all the features and of course, all of the beautiful women. When I come across this one girl who, who looks oddly familiar. I can’t quite put my finger on who she was, but I know I had seen her face before. Turns out she was born and raised about 8 hours from me so the likelihood of us ever meeting was very slim. Well, on with the story now, so I message this girl who I am immediately infatuated with, I mean she’s really really cute, so I message her via free dating site and await her reply. About two days later, after I’d almost completely forgotten her, I get a message stating “oh my god, you look familiar, do I know you?” WEIRD right?
I mentioned nothing about recognizing her in my message so this was just freaky. Oh well. So we chatted it up on the free dating site quite a bit, probably for a month or two before we actually decided that I would head out there to meet her. Shoot, I’m out of words, look for part. 2.
I have a funny story about something interesting that happened to me while visiting a free dating site.
Yes, the story does have a point, and yes, there is a lesson to be learned from it.
I call this story, the “beware of who you’re talking to on free dating sites”, yeah it’s a crappy title, but it’s a work in progress so cut me some slack.
Oh well, it all started about 4 months ago when I decided that for the first time ever, I would attempt to find love over the internet. I’d never experienced this mystical feeling they call love, so I felt there was nothing to lose. I joined a free dating site, actually, two free dating sites, but I later dropped one after I discovered some “hidden fees”. Anyways, so I’m surfing this free dating site, checking out all the features and of course, all of the beautiful women. When I come across this one girl who, who looks oddly familiar. I can’t quite put my finger on who she was, but I know I had seen her face before. Turns out she was born and raised about 8 hours from me so the likelihood of us ever meeting was very slim. Well, on with the story now, so I message this girl who I am immediately infatuated with, I mean she’s really really cute, so I message her via free dating site and await her reply. About two days later, after I’d almost completely forgotten her, I get a message stating “oh my god, you look familiar, do I know you?” WEIRD right?
I mentioned nothing about recognizing her in my message so this was just freaky. Oh well. So we chatted it up on the free dating site quite a bit, probably for a month or two before we actually decided that I would head out there to meet her. Shoot, I’m out of words, look for part. 2.
5 Ways to Unleash Her Inner Sexual Animal Side
Alex Coulson asked:
5 Ways To Unleash Her Inner Sexual Animal Side
If you’ve been with a woman for any length of time, you’ll find that sometimes the *** get a little stale. It’s no one’s fault; it just happens. Here are a few ways to spice things up and have fun with each other again.
Play act your fantasies. Everyone fantasizes. They just usually don’t let other people know about them. Some evening, turn down the lights, or light up some candles and sit down together and cuddle. Ask her what is her favorite fantasy. If she says ‘I don’t have one’, don’t accept that as an answer. Coax and tease it out of her by tickling and being just a little ornery. When she tells you the answer, then act out her fantasy with her. You will be amazed at how excited you both will get. Later on you can act out one of your fantasies. At least the ones that require only one partner.
Remember the game ‘Truth or Dare’? It ranked right up there with ‘Spin the Bottle’, but it was a little more dangerous. When someone asked you a question you had to answer with the truth or take a dare. Now as much fun as it was to play as a young teenager, it’s a LOT more fun when you play with your partner. Make it all about ***. Ask intimate, playful questions. If she doesn’t want to answer, then make the dare her doing a strip tease for you, right then and there. You can’t lose either way.
Be a little *****. Remember a few paragraphs back when I suggested that you act out your fantasies? Well, this is along that same vein, but with a little twist. Get dressed up. You know, use costumes. I know it sounds a little weird, but this is SUPPOSED to be *****. So what if you look ridiculous! Laugh and have a great time while playing. Get hot and bothered and play it out. You’ll be surprised how a little play and dressing up will spice up your *** life.
Now, this last suggestion you’ll want to be cautious with. Video tape or photograph your girl. You’ll make her feel like a supermodel. It makes a woman ABSOLUTELY hot when she feels like she’s beautiful. They become freaking Amazons! Just be careful to let her have the ownership of the video or the pictures.
Lastly, if you want to draw out the *** animal in your woman, just take command. Be the lead of every single aspect of *** for the evening. When you take charge, and she is the object of your sexuality, she will become like putty in your hands.
Have fun, and get on with it!
Watch FREE hidden camera pickup videos and discover
how to approach, meet and get dates with attractive
women at the shopping mall, the park, even the street!
http://www.SucceedAtDating.com
5 Ways To Unleash Her Inner Sexual Animal Side
If you’ve been with a woman for any length of time, you’ll find that sometimes the *** get a little stale. It’s no one’s fault; it just happens. Here are a few ways to spice things up and have fun with each other again.
Play act your fantasies. Everyone fantasizes. They just usually don’t let other people know about them. Some evening, turn down the lights, or light up some candles and sit down together and cuddle. Ask her what is her favorite fantasy. If she says ‘I don’t have one’, don’t accept that as an answer. Coax and tease it out of her by tickling and being just a little ornery. When she tells you the answer, then act out her fantasy with her. You will be amazed at how excited you both will get. Later on you can act out one of your fantasies. At least the ones that require only one partner.
Remember the game ‘Truth or Dare’? It ranked right up there with ‘Spin the Bottle’, but it was a little more dangerous. When someone asked you a question you had to answer with the truth or take a dare. Now as much fun as it was to play as a young teenager, it’s a LOT more fun when you play with your partner. Make it all about ***. Ask intimate, playful questions. If she doesn’t want to answer, then make the dare her doing a strip tease for you, right then and there. You can’t lose either way.
Be a little *****. Remember a few paragraphs back when I suggested that you act out your fantasies? Well, this is along that same vein, but with a little twist. Get dressed up. You know, use costumes. I know it sounds a little weird, but this is SUPPOSED to be *****. So what if you look ridiculous! Laugh and have a great time while playing. Get hot and bothered and play it out. You’ll be surprised how a little play and dressing up will spice up your *** life.
Now, this last suggestion you’ll want to be cautious with. Video tape or photograph your girl. You’ll make her feel like a supermodel. It makes a woman ABSOLUTELY hot when she feels like she’s beautiful. They become freaking Amazons! Just be careful to let her have the ownership of the video or the pictures.
Lastly, if you want to draw out the *** animal in your woman, just take command. Be the lead of every single aspect of *** for the evening. When you take charge, and she is the object of your sexuality, she will become like putty in your hands.
Have fun, and get on with it!
Watch FREE hidden camera pickup videos and discover
how to approach, meet and get dates with attractive
women at the shopping mall, the park, even the street!
http://www.SucceedAtDating.com
Funny Dating Questions
Michael Dat asked:
Striking up a good conversation with your date can be as challenging as coming up with real good sensible questions to ask her. Common questions like “where do you live” or “what do you work as” are really typical and boring.
Others try to be a little bit cheeky and try asking joke-like questions instead. Some leaves a good impression on their date, but others are immediately struck off the dating list. Learn to be the smart AND cheeky one, and ask funny dating questions, instead of the mundane ones that bore your dates to death.
“Funny” can mean two different things. Funny hilarious or Funny weird.
The idea here is not to be funny hilarious. Funny dating questions can be pretty lame or sometimes when there is too much jokes around, it just spoils the whole dating mood. Dating questions like…
You: Did you know that Elvis died …
Her: Yeah.
You:.. his hair! (quickly)
Some guys can be pretty good with these kind of tricky cheeky questions, so if you think that you are one of them, then you should give it a try. Otherwise, if you think you are not the kind of person who can ***** good jokes, then stay away from such questions at all costs.
Next you have the Funny weird kind of dating questions. These are the kind of questions that your date would not expect you to ask. This is pretty good so that you are able to analyze for yourself what kind of a person your date is.
Is she humorous? Is she shy but ticklish? Or is she a person that you shouldn’t mess with?
If you are looking for funny weird dating questions to ask, then check out the list below:
1)What’s your favorite domestic animal?
2)If you were alone in a forest, how would you feel?
3)If you were in a white room surrounded by people dressed in white, what kind of emotions do you feel?
These questions are not any kind of questions. These questions are meant to make you understand her and her life better. Like for question 1, her favorite domestic animal is how she thinks other people views her. For question 2, her emotions will tell you how she feels about death and for question 3, her emotions will tell you how she views marriage.
And the 4th question, which many of us would consider it as the most important question:
4)What’s your favorite food? Give three reasons why?
Her answer to this question will tell you of her views on ***. Interesting isn’t it?
This is just one of the few ways which you can use funny weird dating questions to check out the inner thoughts on how your date views life So, indirectly, you will get to know so much more about her without her even feeling interrogated by you.
As a guide, try to mix these weird questions around the conversation instead of bombarding her with weird questions all at one go. You definitely would not want to sound like a weirdo, would you?
Striking up a good conversation with your date can be as challenging as coming up with real good sensible questions to ask her. Common questions like “where do you live” or “what do you work as” are really typical and boring.
Others try to be a little bit cheeky and try asking joke-like questions instead. Some leaves a good impression on their date, but others are immediately struck off the dating list. Learn to be the smart AND cheeky one, and ask funny dating questions, instead of the mundane ones that bore your dates to death.
“Funny” can mean two different things. Funny hilarious or Funny weird.
The idea here is not to be funny hilarious. Funny dating questions can be pretty lame or sometimes when there is too much jokes around, it just spoils the whole dating mood. Dating questions like…
You: Did you know that Elvis died …
Her: Yeah.
You:.. his hair! (quickly)
Some guys can be pretty good with these kind of tricky cheeky questions, so if you think that you are one of them, then you should give it a try. Otherwise, if you think you are not the kind of person who can ***** good jokes, then stay away from such questions at all costs.
Next you have the Funny weird kind of dating questions. These are the kind of questions that your date would not expect you to ask. This is pretty good so that you are able to analyze for yourself what kind of a person your date is.
Is she humorous? Is she shy but ticklish? Or is she a person that you shouldn’t mess with?
If you are looking for funny weird dating questions to ask, then check out the list below:
1)What’s your favorite domestic animal?
2)If you were alone in a forest, how would you feel?
3)If you were in a white room surrounded by people dressed in white, what kind of emotions do you feel?
These questions are not any kind of questions. These questions are meant to make you understand her and her life better. Like for question 1, her favorite domestic animal is how she thinks other people views her. For question 2, her emotions will tell you how she feels about death and for question 3, her emotions will tell you how she views marriage.
And the 4th question, which many of us would consider it as the most important question:
4)What’s your favorite food? Give three reasons why?
Her answer to this question will tell you of her views on ***. Interesting isn’t it?
This is just one of the few ways which you can use funny weird dating questions to check out the inner thoughts on how your date views life So, indirectly, you will get to know so much more about her without her even feeling interrogated by you.
As a guide, try to mix these weird questions around the conversation instead of bombarding her with weird questions all at one go. You definitely would not want to sound like a weirdo, would you?