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Do You Know That Your Ex Might Secretly Want You Back? Here is Something Most People Don’t Realize
I know something you don’t…and guess what it is? I bet you will never guess? Well your ex actually desperately wants you back! You see, some people just have a weird way of showing it, and although your ex is giving you mixed feelings, he/she may simply just be giving it time and space. Read on to find out the 4 reveal all tips about your ex…
Contact decreases then increases – Rinse and repeat and then you have a vicious cycle of confusing emotions! It’s like they like you one minute, but hate you the next. But trust me, either way, they definitely still like you! You see, your ex may decrease contact sometimes when they feel your actions are not always the best, and they may not like what you are doing in the moment.
But you will find that other moments your ex is suddenly calling you like crazy, and doesn’t seem to want to let go of you. You will suddenly have emails and messages like crazy, and they will want to see you. This shows that your ex misses you.
Since you are broken up, your ex may also want some space, which is why he/she sometimes doesn’t call you as much anymore, but then suddenly they are calling you like crazy, it’s just a natural process after a break up, don’t take it too personal, as this is literally your ex acting in desperation, where he/she doesn’t know what exactly they should do.
Nosier than a nose – Is there anything more obvious than someone who is literally so nosy about your personal life? If your ex is always trying to pry into your dating situation, and is constantly hounding you about what you are doing, then know that he/she is very jealous and still wants you back.
Nosy people are simply really concerned about the thing they are nosing around in, which means your ex is concerned about you, which in turn proves that he/she still likes you and cares about you. There is also nothing more desperate than someone prying into your dating life.
I’m not dating anyone – So let’s reverse this, and you have just asked your ex if he/she is dating anyone, and you hear right away that they are single. You will probably think they are lying, and even if they are, the fact that they are TELLING you about their personal dating life, just goes to show you that they still want to be with you.
Your ex tells you they are single, because they want to show you that they are available, otherwise why would they say they are? This means that your ex still has feelings for you.
It always comes up to bite you in the butt – Ever have something come back, just like karma, from the past to bite you in the butt? Well that is your ex right now, as he/she just constantly brings up the past. A true sign to know that your ex isn’t over you, is the fact that they ALWAYS bring up the past.
Even if they are bickering and complaining about it, your ex is still talking about it! This definitely is a true sign that your ex still is madly in love with you.
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3 Dirty Mind Games to Get Your Ex Back – A Perfect Plan to Make Your Ex Take Your Back!
From The Man That Has Secretly Helped 50,119 People In 77 Countries…Now You Can Stop Your Break Up, Divorce or Lovers Rejection…Even If Your Situation Seems Hopeless!I’ll take you by the hand and show you exactly what to do and what to say to get your ex lover back in your arms- Especially if you are the only one trying…Zzzzziiiiiip…CRASH!…and then the shattering sound of glass as Deidre hurls Al’s Playstation 3 from the 2nd story apartment window…followed by a shrill and sobbing “GET OUT!…GET OUT!…GET OooooUT!”See, IT WAS THE LAST STRAW! Even though Al loved Deidre with all his heart…he had lied so often… had ignored Deidre so much that she just reached her boiling point that hot, muggy summer afternoon.And Al did get out. Deidre was serious. She had had enough of Al’s ways. See, Al was a good guy…a great guy even…he cared deeply and loved Deidre…and Deidre knew it too…but that wasn’t her problem. She was sick of feeling unappreciated…and Al just didn’t know what would make her happy anymore. He didn’t know how to wipe the slate clean…or start over…And this WAS the end of Deidre and All forever As it is the end of so many relationshipsWhat if it didn’t have to be?What if you could recapture your ex lovers mind, heart and soul?…Wipe the slate clean? Turn back time? Even if you feel right now that your situation is too far gone…too screwed up …or just plain too darn complicated?I am going to show you right in this letter the first thing Al SHOULD have done…first may I say?…I know if you are here right now you are probably in a great deal of heart ache and pain. I understand…and I have been there too…and I am not going to belabor on and on about the pain you feel…because I know that you know it all too well…You already know how hard it is to just even wake up and roll out of bed in the morning. You leave your radio off on your way to work because every song is a painful reminder of him. You can’t even bear to eat at the same restaurants you took her to. And if that isn’t bad enough, you have to cope with the loss of friends and family that are on “their side”.If you are in pain and confused?Here’s some good news…Did you know that most relationships CAN be salvaged? You may find it difficult to believe that almost every break up for whatever reason…infidelity, plain old lost passion, loss of interest, a stolen heart and worse…even the worst situations you can imagine…like men serving prison sentences have salvaged their relationships. Yes, even Ex-cons have got back together with girlfriends and wives after being away for years!There is hope…Now I can almost see you shaking your head in disbelief…And it’s okay…let me ask?Don’t you know couples that have gotten back together? A girl that has taken a guy back?…or vice versa?I bet you do…and here’s the strange real clincher…Do you remember why they broke up in the first place? I bet you know at least one guy or gal that took their lover back after an affair…or unfaithfulness…or worse even?Think about it for a sec…Sure! And I bet you know of…or have heard of at least one girl that has taken a guy back that REALLY should not have…you know the ones I am talking about…(and I know this is kind of dark)… the girls or guys that are in verbally or physically abusive relationships.Now, that is some really dark stuff and I am not recommending to anyone to take someone back if the relationship was abusive…I am using it as a point that almost NO SITUATION is unsalvageable…”Couples reunite every day REGARDLESS of the situation!”Seriously, Doesn’t that make sense? That if most of us can think of couples that have gotten back together…under even some horrible circumstances…that there could be some hidden recipe, or secret even, to reigniting passion and recapturing lost love?Now…I am not saying they were holding some “secret love spell” book and doing weird chants…not at all…at the same time somehow, by MOSTLY accident they said and did the RIGHT THINGS at the RIGHT TIME…and won back the heart of their lover…or at least created the circumstances where their ex gave them a second chance.Allow me to repeat…they did this by mostly ACCIDENT!Imagine…What if? What they said…and what they did…could be “bottled” so to speak? And then you could “unbottle” it and put it to use? To erase old hurts…to reignite passion again…to turn back to a time when your relationship was fresh, new and exciting.Yes…A Magic Love Recipe…in a sense…You see there IS a “recipe for love” as well as a recipe for winning back and keeping some ones interest, desire, passion, heart and love…What they did by “accident” can be repeated over and over on PURPOSE!And you know whatIf I were you…I would be somewhat skeptical right now…that’s totally fine! I am going to show you some concrete proof. Just bear with me okay?Do you have these symptoms?-Leaving the radio off because every song makes you cry-Loss of appetite-Binge eating for comfort -Calling your ex several times a day-Text messaging and emailing constantly (Text Message Terrorism)-Constantly checking your email and voice mail to see if he/she called-Not going out because you are afraid to miss a call-Thinking non-stop about why they REALLY left you-Feeling massively depressed-Feeling urges to spy on them-Endlessly rehearsing what you should have said-Endlessly rehearsing what you will say if you bump into them…and when you do get a hold of them, it usually turns ugly because without a clear plan of what you are supposed to do…what happens? P-A-N-I-C…defensiveness…arguments…and then it gets really nasty.Do you make these mistakes with your ex?-We try to convince them we are the love of their life-We will apologize profusely for everything-Promise to change for good this time-Try to get them to see that it wasn’t really our fault-Even beg with them to take us back…and of course with every word we utter, regardless of our intention, the more and more defensive, angry and distant they become.Please know…this is not your fault! You weren’t taught this in school. You probably weren’t taught this by your parents…and there is no “get your ex back” night school…Yeah?And it is really a shame too because what could be more important than love? ..Cars?…Money?…Clothes?…ALGEBRA?So why? Are there all kinds of books, magazines and help on fixing a car, managing money and all the latest fashions, yet very little USEFUL information on how to fix a broken relationship…manage your emotions or getting the love of your life back?Crazy huh?And now as you will soon see…all that has changed.”T Dub” Discovers His “Love Recipe”Please allow me to introduce myself…My name is T.W. Jackson, I know kinda weird…it’s a long story…you can just call me “T Dub”…I want to say right off the bat, that I am not a psychologist, Doctor or some relationship guru…In fact I royally piss off the academic types and I’ll tell you why in a secondI have been a military brat…or in the military for a majority of my life. In fact I joined the US Navy when I was a ripe old 17 years of age. Because of my life long military experience I’ve had dozens of homes…in 11 countries… and lived long term in 5 states in the U.S.And because I have lived in so many places and changed schools so often as a kid…I had to learn…and learn REALLY FAST…how to get along with people. And people from ALL WALKS OF LIFE. I can sit down and have some sake with my friend in Tokyo…or pop open a can of suds and fish Lake Dardanelle with an Arkansas “redneck” buddy of mine…makes no difference…More importantly…I became really good at reading people, understanding what makes them “tick” and even got to a point where I could influence their behavior and actions.In fact, I got quite good at doing this, so good in fact that I was the “go to” guy whenever my friends had just about any kind of “people problem”…I kind of felt like the male version of “Dear Abby”…Maybe you even know someone a little like me?…someone that you go to when you have “people problems”Anyway…I got a ton of practice keeping relationships together…and putting them back together after they had come apart…because the divorce rate for military couples is MUCH HIGHER than average.WARNING: Unconventional Methods!At this point, I must WARN YOU…STRONGLY WARN YOU…my advice and methods are VERY unconventional. I get relationship counselors and the like REALLY ANGRY because they are charging $50 to $100 an hour (sometimes for months and even years) and I can whisper just one of my methods in my friends ear…he DOES IT… And next thing you know… he’s back home, laying back on the couch and watching LOST with his fiance on Thursday nights.Now you are free to make up your own mind about me. I just don’t believe that any amount of sitting in a classroom can make up for the REAL WORLD experience that I have under my belt…I mean, what’s a more valuable experience?…Listening to a lecture on libido? Or BEING THERE when my buddy’s girlfriend is chucking his clothes and skivys out the bedroom window because she thinks he was with some tart the night before?I don’t know about you, my money is on the guy with the real world experience any day.Now, if you are hanging out with me here today, I am guessing you have “relationship troubles” too? If you do…I think I can help…Here’s how I can help you…If you have broken up and want to get your guy or gal back, obviously I can’t talk too or be with everyone, I just don’t have enough time…but I have done what I believe to be the next best thing…I have put my years of experience…into a really easy to follow… love recipe for “getting back together”…and again I forewarn you right now…these are techniques and strategies that are NOT conventional wisdom…and I doubt you have ever read or heard these techniques before.…and I’ll tell you…this stuff works!…maybe too well?Frankly, I get a little freaked out about just how well it works…and worry that it may be used for less than honorable intentions. I mean I want to help GOOD people…I don’t want to help JERKS get girls back that would be better off without them. I do NOT want to help “psycho chick” steal away a married man.Like a knife, these techniques and principles can be used for great good or grave harm.This is NOT FOR-Stalkers-Ex Convicts-People with severe mental problems-Other Crazies, Cuckoos or Whack JobsOkay?Anyway, I have titled the “recipe” simply The Magic Of Making Up…See, it is my opinion that there are really no impossible situations. I have seen women not only wait on a man for months, but take back men that have spent years in prison…and… I have seen men take women back that have had MORE THAN ONE AFFAIR…Get this now and save your relationship! Get your ex back!And everything else in between! How crazy is that?And…You know what?By now, I bet you really want to see some proof that this works? I would too if I were you.Here’s PROOF This WorksThe best way I know to prove to you that these techniques really work is by giving you some free samples and by showing you testimonials from guys and gals that have already used these techniques successfully.Now, I also figured that instead of giving you some useless sample…Why not?…make it something you could really use RIGHT NOW? Something that would really be helpful. So here is a little video of me explaining the very first steps you should take immediately after a break up: (This is what Al SHOULD HAVE done.)1st Step To Stopping A Break Up(Over 50,119 Customers In 77 Countries Have Used This Proven System!) Here’s What Everyday People Are SayingClick Play Twice Magic Of Making Up Add To CartInstant Download!(Over 50,119 Customers In 77 Countries Have Used This Proven System!)There Are NO Impossible SituationsNow, what I have noticed in helping so many folks, is that there are UNDERLYING REASONS and MOTIVES as to why their exes take them back…that lay hidden from sight of most people…And once you know and UNDERSTAND and are given just a little guidance on what to do and when to do it…it is like being handed “the recipe” for love if you will…Because not only will you be able to get your ex back, you also will be much better equipped to KEEP THEM long, long into the future…Isn’t that great newsLet’s talk about what’s inside The Magic Of Making Up and how it is going to help you:When You Download You’ll Receive These Virtually Immediate Benefits…exHow to get your head on straight. Use my Fast Forward Technique and get instant relief from emotional break-up pain and depression…You CAN feel better and within minutes! (Page 13)exDo they still care? Discover the TELL TALE clues your ex leaves that says you still have a special place in their heart…and I don’t care what they say… This is all you need to look for PERIOD! (Page 21)exMan had an affair? How to fight fire with fire. Inside this magic bag you will discover dirty tricks women use to steal a man. How to neutralize the power she has over him by understanding the ONE THING he craves more than sex, food or ball games. (Page 5)exDo you know the core reason why men leave women? …it is not beauty, sex, or a younger fresher face… I am SHOCKED most women can’t answer this question. Men desire this ONE thing more than any other…give it to them and they will be yours FOREVER. (Page 5)exWhat women crave the most… and if she doesn’t get it…it is only a matter of time before SHE WILL look for it somewhere else. You can get her back fast once you master this simple technique. (This is the #1 technique used by unscrupulous Don Juan’s use to steal married women.) (Page 6)exAre they with someone else now? Why this is not nearly as catastrophic as it first appears…and how to use the fact that 90% of rebound relationships never work out to your advantage. (Page 18)exWere you the one that had the affair? How to use the “clean slate” technique in conjunction with one other secret technique and come a looong way to forgiveness in the shortest amount of time. (Special Bonus Included)exWhen to apologize and when you shouldn’t. In the right circumstance just one good apology will land you back in their arms…other times an apology will blow up in your face and hurt your future chances. (Special Bonus Included)exThe fastest and shortest path (bar none) back into their heart, mind and soul. This is so counter-intuitive it may never occur to you. (Page 33)exWish you could start over? Take away hurtful things you said? Turn back time? Using a combination of the Clean Slate Method and “breaking the pattern” you can. Quickly and easily.exThe Instant Reconnect Technique – I almost didn’t include this one because it may be too potent. It is “psychological judo” and will trick your ex lovers mind into thinking you are still together. This is SUBCONSCIOUS and there is no defense against it. (Page 43)exExactly what to say and what to do to get your ex back on a date. Follow my instructions and it will be easy as pie because it will seem so natural. This has worked hundreds if not thousands of times. (Page 38exThe Bonding Secret so powerful that is partially responsible for the reason hostages sometimes bond with their kidnappers or oppressors (Stockholm Syndrome). This is relationship magic. It is undetectable, unnoticeable and 99.99% of the human population can not defend against it, let alone tell you how it is done. Like ANYTHING, this can be used for good or bad. Once you own The Magic Of Making Up you will possess the power to REBOND or BOND with anyone. Please use responsibly!exSex? When you should have sex during the reconciliation process. Both men and women get this completely wrong. Guys you will speed up the process immensely armed with this information. Ladies, most of you nearly destroy your chances because you sleep with him too soon. (Page 46-48)exWhat foods toy with your emotions and what foods help put you in balance. Putting your relationship back together is hard enough, make sure you are eating foods that will help you. (Page 26-28)exDecisions you should actually put off until you are back together. (Page 60)exHow to use the Fast Forward Technique to overcome hang ups you may have with dieting, exercise, self esteem and other challenges that stem from negative feelings. (Page 14)exRecapture the romance you had when love your love was new. Impossible? Not once you learn the magic of Pattern Breaking and you stir in a dose of the techniques in Chapter 4.exLadies if you follow the advice in Chapter 6, he will NOT be able to get you out of his mind – (It’s just the way men are wired.)- He will start CALLING YOU again and you will be shocked at the complete transformation he makesexAfraid you will just start fighting again once your back together? How to diffuse arguments before they start. This is so simple and works so well you will swear it’s “magic”…and it only takes one person!And a whole lot more…The techniques, principles and advice you will receive in The Magic Of Making Up have helped hundreds of men and women just like you win back the mind, heart and soul of the ones they love.Will you allow me to help you too?It would be my pleasure, and I realize that we have just met , so you may have some things on your mind…Like…Frequently Asked QuestionsWhat if I order and for some reason it just doesn’t work for me? It is my opinion, like we talked about earlier that there really is no impossible situation, but I have been wrong before and if for some weird reason it doesn’t work for you…or even if you are not absolutely delighted FOR ANY REASON…please, I WANT you to get a refund. In fact, you have a full 56 days before you have to decide. How cool is that?Can’t I just find this information free on the internet? I LOVE to save my money and find stuff free when I can, but I know for a fact that the only place on the planet that you can get your hands on what is inside The Magic Of Making UP System is right here. See, I have spent hours looking at what is available…and some of it is tepidly okay…but you don’t get the WHOLE PICTURE…and reading an article or two without really understanding what you are doing…can really hurt your chances rather than improve them.What about the other “Get Your Ex Back” books? What about your competition? Fair question…I won’t say anything bad about them. At the same time I can sum up what “my competition” charges you for in just a few sentences…I have bought them ALL…Do you want a summary of all of them? Okay…here’s what nearly every one of them tell you in just a different way…”Do not contact your ex for 30 days…and during that 30 days work on yourself.”THAT’S IT!…Can you believe it? …that is what they tell you to do for EVERY situation! Some take 50 pages to say it…some take less…and some give a little more okay advice, but in my opinion they do not give you the tools you really need!Frankly, there are some situations…where all you really need is a good apology…make the apology the right way (like I show you in The Magic Of Making Up System) and you and your honey will “ride off into the sunset”.When will I receive The Magic Of Making Up? Great question. You will receive it immediately after you have ordered because it is a downloadable book (ebook). So you will have it on your hard drive and in your hands in moments. It is very safe, reliable and so easy a caveman could download it.Can I use the The Magic Of Making Up on a Mac? Yes! The Magic Of Making Up System is in PDF format so it is viewable on PCs as well as Macs.What if I have a question about something in The Magic Of Making Up? Terrific! It would be my pleasure to give you a hand and I give you a special “customers only” contact address within the manual.I REALLY want you to be successful at getting back the love of your life…I will take you by the hand and…-Get you in the right frame of mind. 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If you are not back together with your ex within 60 days…or you are not absolutely delighted for any reason…You will receive a prompt and courteous refund.”Sound fair?Now, I don’t want to sound like some salesman or something…I really don’t…I do want to strongly urge you to order right now because I just can not imagine ANYTHING that can make you happier than enjoying the rest of your life with the person you r-e-a-l-l-y love…Can you?I mean……every moment you wait…makes it harder and harder and harder to get them back because time is the soil in which their indifference towards you grows…and it is INDIFFERENCE and NOT HATE…that is YOUR BIGGEST ENEMY right now.So please… I want you to click the order button below. Place your order. Download The Magic Of Making Up so we can get started today. This is your chance to regain control of your love and life and I believe fate has brought us together : -)Magic Of Making UpRetail Price $99 SALE Only $39Magic Of Making Up ButtonSecure Order Form – Order Online 24 Hours A Day – 7 Days A Week – 365 Days A Year.Instant Access – 24 Hours A Day – 7 Days A Week – 365 Days A Year!Over 50,119 customers in 77 countries have used this proven system!Rooting For You,JAMES!PS Please don’t wait to order because with time, your lovers indifference towards you grows and grows making our job getting them back much more difficult.Last PS
I thought I would share a few of the nice notes I have received below
(All notes are on file.)Works For Long Distance Relationships Too…Just wanted to thank you and let you know how much you have helped me. I followed the [your guide] after a very bitter breakup of a two-year plus relationship (my first since my divorce from a 21-year marriage). It started out being one of the most difficult things I have ever attempted in my life and after the initial two weeks I started feeling stronger each day and better about myself. My ex sent me an apology email three weeks in …By now, I had the strength to actually “sleep on it” and sent him a response the next day…within seconds he called me and asked to see me and was crying because he was glad I was talking to him. We are starting out very slowly again as friends (which is difficult for me since I am still deeply in love with him). An interesting note is this is a long distance relationship and your program still worked!! I am so happy to have him in my life again.Thanks again,DeniseDating Again!Just wanted to say thank you soooooooooo much for the amazing advice in your book the magic of making up. Yesterday was that all important First Date and it was absolutely fantastic… i just had an email from him saying what a great time he had and how he can’t believe how cool it was to be together. Also back when we split up, your book picked me up out of the mud when I was feeling the worst I ever felt in my life, and doing all the things you advised gave me a life line – now I am so much stronger and happier. I’m still going to take things slowly with my ex (I’m not at the end of your plan yet!!) but I can’t believe how well life is going only 2 months after I felt like I was half dead. Thank you so much.Alice Ex POPS The Question……just an email to say thanks for all the support and knowledge. my boyfriend has just proposed. we are the happiest we have ever been. wedding booked for 2011.many thanks,Jenna Talking Again…Just wanted to say THANKS!!Me and my ex are talking now. The letter thing worked, even though I thought it wouldn’t…-DeloisBest Money Ever Spent… You are the best!!! After one day, again one day, my changed attitude had my ex calling and wanting to see me. I won’t take his calls but this showed me that the changes you showed me, worked…you have helped me more than you will ever know…Thanks and keep up the good work. Best money I ever spent!!!MelissaCasey gets his girl back!I have good news, my ex did get back with me! She said to me the guy she went out with before was a cover up and she was lying to herself the whole time. Thanks for the support.CaseyMarried Again…got him back we were married again on the 25th of January ….LindaNot A Scam…I am beside myself that something actually came of this…I was SO skeptical putting in $39 to an e-book. I was positive it would be a waste of money, and there wouldn’t even be a book as promised.PLEASE make it clear somewhere on your page that this is NOT A SCAM and that there are 62 PAGES FOR THIS BOOK, PLUS BONUSES. I was beside myself.Thank you so much…Sara”Impossible Not To Work”Just wanted to let you know your advice is so rational and so sound… At such a horrible and tough time it is reassuring to read the correct way to handle yourself and go about respecting someone’s wishes (a breakup) but at the same time try to get them back. A lot of people don’t realize how simple and easy it is, patience is a virtue and because of you … I am now dating the love of my life again, we were together for 4 years, split for only 2 1/2 months and are now back together. I did what you… told me was the ONLY option and it worked. If it is true love and meant to be, your advice is impossible not to work. Thanks for the guidance. You’re a good man!CC”On her hands and knees”well it tool some time but i got my girl back. she pretty [much] got down on her hands and knees coming back to me thanks buddyRobTalking Like Friends Again!I have just downloaded the materials from the website. I am eager to read and learn.I ALREADY HAVE WONDERFUL NEWS!!Just from the video via your website, before attaining the reading materials, Italked with my ex yesterday for 40 MINUTES!! It has been months since we havetalked that long like friends. He even hinted around that we could have afuture together. MY ATTITUDE WAS DIFFERENT!! I WAS FRIENDLY AND ACTED LIKE THEBREAKUP IS OK!!Thanks for the free advice and I can’t wait to get to reading!!I’ll keep in touch.TiffanyBack Together…Guess what!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i took your advice and my ex- boyfriend and i are back together again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and thanks 4 the advice AGIAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!AdrianBack Together…Effortlessly… I am happy to report that my Ex and I are now happily back together. I have to say it was effortlessly done! I thank you for all of your great information.CherylPleasantly Surprised…I have received your guide entitled The Magic of Making Up and was pleasantly surprised with the quality of the advice contained therein…[removed due to sensitive nature]Jacquelynn”Dude It’s Working… DUUDE ITS WORKING MAN. After a few weeks of being cool and ok with it, i said we should be friends, and now shes saying im going to give you another chance to get to know me, and if im paying attention to her like i said i would, then ill find the right time to ask her out… thank you!TaylorCan’t Believe This Worked…OMG THANK YOU SO MUCH! I GOT MY EX BACK JUST AN HOUR AGO ! I CANT BELIEVE THIS WORKED ! ! !TigerPlanning A Beach Getaway!Just wanted to thank you for all your help! Your book is amazing and got my man and I back together within a few weeks of reading it. Now to clarify, it had already been some time since we had even spoken to each other, and I was really starting to miss him. I read your instructions very carefully and fallowed them to the tee, and it worked! … I could not have done it without you! We are now blissfully celebrating are Birthdays together, and are even planning a beach getaway just us two.Thank you sooooo much!!! LenaFinally Married!!thanks for all you help and encouraging words,quotes and what to do. He proposed and we are finally married thank you very much.AntonettAnother “OMG!!! This Works” Note…OMG!!! This totally worked….nothing I had tried worked and then I texted him that message and he returned my call!! I cannot wait to see where this goes….JessicaBroke Part Of The Wall Between Us… I downloaded your book and me and my ex talked for an hour and a half. IT was the first time we talked since November of last year! I followed the instructions in the book and am happy with the fact that we were able to just talk even though no progress was made as far as getting back together yet. She is still living with her boyfriend, but I feel like we broke part of the wall between us.If this book helps me to get her back, I will drive to Arkansas and personally shake your hand! So, on that note, hopefully I’ll see ya soon!
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20 Minutes to Hell and Back
For me, as a journalist, covering the blaze engulfing Nandaram complex in Burrabazar area of central Kolkata had seemed to be an easy task. After all, during my career as a journalist, I had covered incidents which were full of adventure, thrill, risk and even threat. So what could have been the problem with a fire? That is what I thought. Until, I cajoled my photographer Suchandan to accompany me inside the building on fire.
Getting inside the Nandaram complex, I was looking for some experiences that would satiate my hunger for adventure. Never had I thought that once inside, I would have a close brush with death. I had considered myself lucky, when on Monday I managed to escape the wrath of the local public which thrashed media people. I was equally lucky on Tuesday as well! Had it not been a matter of barely 5 minutes, perhaps I wouldn’t be writing this!
As we were entering the Nandaram building on Tuesday afternoon, Suchandan looked up at the thick, black smoke billowing out, and asked me “Are you sure you want to do this?” I just started climbing up the steep stairs, through which water was gushing down with full force. As soon as we entered the complex, we were drenched – from the water accumulated on the stairs, and showering on us from the hose pipes above.
Up we went, from the first, second, third, fourth, fifth to the sixth floor of the Nandaram complex. While the first few floors were clean, minus the dirty water and scattered items, a gory sight awaited us on the sixth floor. The damage caused by the fire was evident at every step we took towards the upper floors. Heaps of burnt paper lay scattered here and there. So did piles of textile, charred remains of plastic, a stray slipper floating on the water, empty bottles of water and a few photographs of deities.
The sixth floor was packed with media people, clicking pictures and recording the horrific sight. We moved further and we climbed up to the seventh floor. The scene here was similar to the sixth floor. The entire floor had been badly gutted by the fire. The walls were charred, and the iron grilles were in a dilapidated state. The entire floor lay engulfed in a blanket of darkness, and we were having a tough time moving ahead. The icy cold water in which we had stepped in the lower floors had started turning warm now.
Moving further we climbed up to the eighth floor. I had started getting a weird kind of smell on the eighth floor. “What’s that?”, I asked the fireman. “Methane” was his one word reply. It was considerably warm on the eighth floor, and I could not keep my coat on. A mesh of wires from the main electric board hung before us like spider-webs in a dilapidated building, and we had to stoop low in order to move ahead. A debris of plastic, water-logged shops with broken shutters and walls, remains of half-burned shirts in cardboard packets lay scattered here and there.
Carefully avoiding tripping over the criss-cross of hose pipes on the ground, we moved up to the ninth floor. The same scene of devastation everywhere… However, on the ninth floor, we got a glimpse of how Nandaram market would have been before the fire. On the left of the floor, we found the shutter to a shop open. The shop was partially damaged, and the thick, white mattress on the floor, with white pillows, a small table, accounts book, a bunch of visiting cards gave an eerie impression that a customer would just enter the shop and the business would begin as usual. But, we knew it wouldn’t.
On the ninth floor, towards the other side, was a shop which appeared more like a home. A wooden table, a gas cylinder, a stove, utensils and an iron cot with a heap of clothes lay in the cubicle partially damaged in the fire. I shuddered! What if someone was sleeping on this cot when the fire broke out? I shut my eyes tightly and moved aside.
Swallowing a lump in my throat, we moved up to the tenth floor. A cloud of thick smoke welcomed me. The heat was unbearable by this time, and we were bathed in sweat. Covering our face with handkerchief, we started surveying the floor. Sunlight was shining through an opening in the wall, but we still found it difficult to move in the darkness. We could see embers at short distances, amidst piles of textile and plastic. The walls of the shops on this floor were completely gutted, and even the stairs were starting to crack. As I was entering inside of the ravaged shops, a fireman warned me “The ceiling can come down any time. Please don’t go inside.”
Within moments, I was climbing the stairs to the eleventh floor. Our eyes were watering in the smoke, and we found it difficult to breathe. The heat seemed to be getting into our head, and we had started feeling dizzy. “How do you manage to stay here?” I asked a firefighter. “Many of us have fallen sick, and have been taken away from here. We are also half-sick… but we can’t help it.”
The water through which we were wading on the eleventh floor was very hot. It was also very dirty, with a frothy appearance, and had a bad odour. A strong and pungent smell of methane wafted through the air, which seemed to be minus a trace of oxygen. “Ouch”, escaped my mouth, as a drop of hot water from above fell on my arm. The heat was enough to give me a blister.
“Madam please don’t go further. It’s difficult staying there for a minute,” urged a firefighter. “How are you staying there?” I enquired. “Our handkerchiefs are wet, yours is dry. Wet handkerchiefs are giving us some oxygen,” came the reply. I took out a bottle of water from my bag, soaked the handkerchiefs I and my photographer were using, covered my face, and moved up.
Twelfth floor – The floor still virgin in terms of any media person stepping in. I climbed up and fumbled upon a wire sticking out from the stairs. I put my hand on the heated wall to prevent tripping over. And a part of the wall collapsed. Just my touch was enough!
Principal Officer of West Bengal Fire Services, Gopal Bhattacharya met me on this floor. “Go carefully”, he instructed me. I asked him about the situation on the floor above us. “The fire is under control, but we cannot say anything at the moment. It might start raising its head anytime.” As a pungent odour filled my nostrils again, I asked him, “What odour is that?”. “Liquid ammonia,” he replied, “There’s a leak on the floor above”. I couldn’t resist asking him “Don’t you feel uncomfortable?” He replied, “We do. No one can stay here for more than five minutes. So, we keep rotating.”
As I started moving further, Suchandan asked me again “More?”. I nodded and moved up to the thirteenth floor – the topmost floor of the building! My heart skipped a bit as I entered a zone full of smoke and ammonia odour. I could smell fire smouldering somewhere around. The heat could not be tolerated for even a second now, and we were almost blinded by the smoke.
I came to know that even firefighters had not managed to reach completely inside the thirteenth floor. One of them said, “We are trying to move inside, but have managed to reach only half way.” The firefighters were spraying water on the walls, and the sutures in the ceiling. “There’s a leakage here. We are trying to remove the gas,” said a firefighter. I wondered how the men were working with just handkerchiefs covering their faces, when in real, it was difficult to stand there even for a minute without a gas mask!
“Please go back. It is very risky out here,” said a firefighter. Suchandan had already started suffocating. I threw a final glance at the hell of a floor, and started descending the stairs. Carefully escaping the hose pipes, wires and debris as we had done on our journey up the Nandaram building, we reached the exit. We were covered in soot, and were all groggy when we emerged out of the building. After washing my face at a hand pump across the building, I glanced back to take a look at the firemen fighting the fire.
And I froze in horror! The twelfth floor of the building, where I had just spent about five minutes surveying the damage and talking to Gopal Bhattacharya, was in flames again! I stood there trembling for a while, before I could regain my senses. I did not know how to react. I just said a silent prayer, and moved away from the spot. I was lucky, wasn’t I? This narrow escape from death made me look at life from a different perspective. I realised, life is precious. The thought of what could have been, is still giving me shudders!
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Blogging about your ex will not bring them back, but this secret will for all the loneley people looking for love
Blogging about your ex will not bring them back, but this secret will for all the loneley people looking for love
I have a confession to make. I am lonely. Painfully so. I didn’t realize this until today, but thankfully, I had University of Calgary academic degreel Keren decided inform me of this through an article on Canoe about his new book, “Blogosphere: The New Political Arena.” I admit that I did not like the feature the book, but if the article accurately depicts its thesis, then it is painfully stupid.
While it’s true that many blogs are cursive about personal topics, Keren’s description of the blogosphere seems to equate every bloggers as a homogeneous mass. The set of blogs that he follows and chronicles for the purposes of his mass consumption seem to be what we would refer to as “cat blogs” as in someone that blogs the minutia of their lives, including what their cat did today. To then apply this type of blogger to the rest of the blogosphere is not only ridiculous, it’s academically irresponsible. His description of these particular bloggers as depressing and lonely will all be correct, but his extraneous filler can sure not be extrapolated onto the blogosphere (which, remember, is the title of the book) as a whole.
Beyond being reductive, this analysis ignores the core reality of the blogosphere as a major social change. Individually, bloggers do not matter, this such is true. The actual social change comes from the realization of the tools of distribution, once only held by a few. Together, bloggers represent the potential for a major force of change. To equate this force to a some bloggers who live in the woods and talk about their departed cat is the same someone in the fifteenth century saying that the publication press is by a bunch of weird monks making bibles.
I’m not naive to believe that every blogger is making a social change – they’re not, and frankly, there is a lot of crap out there. The great thing about the scheme is that not everything has to be good, but the crap can easily be filtered out. Another, better articles touches on the veracity of blogs: Although the medium offers seemingly unlimited freedom of expression, Keren said bloggers too ofttimes appearance public instrument by reporting distorted versions of the facts.
Keren does hit a valid point, however, about not believing everything you read. The thing about the blogosphere is that it has an superior bullshit detector. If I were to indite something blatantly false, someone (probably Joe) would call me out, either in comments or in added blog. The more important I am, the larger this effect. Again, individually, the credibility of blogs is suspect, but in the aggregate, most errors will likely be found out and titled out. Furthermore, the natural partiality of an unedited personal instrument is evident, and it should come as a surprise to no digit that nothing suggestive in any blog should be considered above suspicion. To me, what is far more harmful is the facade that anything in the mainstream media is true and unbiased. Anyone employed in the media knows that this is ofttimes far from the truth, but sadly, many study the print and television news as the unbiased truth. The reality is that there are good bloggers and intense bloggers, PR bloggers, cat bloggers, semipolitical bloggers and a full lot more. Some are self-interested, some are as unbiased as any newspaper. Some, I’m sure, are lonely and some advance rich lives and are among the most important and intelligent grouping in the country. However, as long as we’re toting out stereotypes of lonely, ineffectual individuals with no relevance right their small and insulated peer group, I can think of a some about academics.
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